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Civil To Strangers by Barbara Pym is centred around a charming village where the arrival of a mysterious Hungarian gentleman stirs intrigue among its inhabitants. The story delves into the everyday lives, relationships, and social dynamics of the village, with Pym's signature blend of wit and keen observation of human nature. This gentle yet insightful tale highlights the nuances of interpersonal connections and the subtle complexities of village life.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate charming, character-driven novels set in small English communities, offering keen observations of social manners and understated humour. If you delight in stories about relatable, eccentric characters navigating everyday life with wit and subtlety, this classic exploration of human relationships could be a perfect fit for you.

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This volume includes an early novel and three novellas, which were discovered and published after Barbara Pym's death in 1980.

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INTRODUCED BY HAZEL HOLT

'I'm a huge fan of Barbara Pym' — Richard Osman

'I'd sooner read a new Barbara Pym than a new Jane Austen' — Philip Larkin

When Barbara Pym died in 1980, she left a considerable amount of unpublished material. This volume contains an early novel, Civil to Strangers, three novellas and an autobiographical essay, 'Finding a Voice', Pym's only written comment on her writing career.

In Civil to Strangers, the lives of a young couple, Cassandra Marsh-Gibbon and her self-absorbed writer husband Adam, are thrown into upheaval when a mysterious Hungarian arrives in their village.

'A sublime social comedy . . . It exists inside the Pym Eden of safety, silliness and a kind of subdued hilarity. Look out for one of her best curates - the starchy, spinster-dodging Mr Paladin - and a typically deliciously insensitive vicar' KATE SAUNDERS, THE TIMES

'Brilliant, hilarious, poignant and so very, very English' TIME

Series: Virago Modern Classics

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Civil to Strangers by Barbara Pym is praised for its wit and charming social comedy. Critics appreciate Pym's ability to capture the nuances of English life and relationships with a mix of hilarity and poignancy. The novel is compared favourably to works by Austen and is celebrated for its distinctive character portraits and the gentle yet insightful depiction of human interactions.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780349016146

Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 June 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Virago Press Ltd

Contributors:

  • Introduction by Hazel Holt

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 30.0mm

Width: 126.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 320g

Pages: 400

About the Author

Barbara Pym (1913-1980) was born in Oswestry, Shropshire. She was educated at Huyton College, Liverpool, and St Hilda's College, Oxford, where she gained an Honours Degree in English Language and Literature. From 1958-1974, she worked as an editorial secretary at the International African Institute. Her first novel, Some Tame Gazelle, was published in 1950, and was followed by Excellent Women (1952), Jane and Prudence (1953), Less than Angels (1955), A Glass of Blessings (1958) and No Fond Return of Love (1961). During the sixties and early seventies her writing suffered a partial eclipse and, discouraged, she concentrated on her work for the Institute, from which she retired in 1974 to live in Oxfordshire. A renaissance in her fortunes came in 1977, when both Philip Larkin and Lord David Cecil chose her as one of the most underrated novelists of the century. With astonishing speed, she emerged, after sixteen years of obscurity, to almost instant fame and recognition. Quartet in Autumn was published in 1977 and was shortlisted for the Booker Prize. The Sweet Dove Died followed in 1978, and A Few Green Leaves was published posthumously. Barbara Pym died in January 1980.

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