Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday

Name: Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday
Brand: Thames and Hudson (Australia) Pty Ltd
SKU: 9781419771668
Price: 29.99 NZD
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And Other Advice on Love, Sex, and Dating

By Nick Viall

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Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday by Nick Viall blends personal anecdotes with thoughtful advice on modern relationships. Nick shares insights from his own experiences and from his popular podcast, aiming to offer guidance on navigating romantic encounters, understanding emotional pitfalls, and fostering healthy connections. With a focus on avoiding common relationship blunders, the book provides a humorous yet insightful roadmap to love and companionship.
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Podcast host, actor, and The Bachelor star Nick Viall guides readers through topics of love, lust, dating, and heartbreak.

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From celebrity heartthrob, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation Nick Viall comes Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday-a no-holds-barred dating-advice book.

"Nick has hard- and well-earned wisdom to share from his own journey-from heartbreak to healing to discovering real and lasting love. In his usual compassionate and humorous voice, he offers great advice . . . like an older brother who is way cooler and wiser than you!"-DR LAURA BERMAN, relationship therapist and host of The Language of Love

"Modern dating, with all its norms and expectations, is rapidly changing and it can be hard to keep up. In Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday, Nick dispenses fresh and candid advice to readers, all while interweaving colorful, personal stories from his own dating life that help bring these insights to life!"-DR. MAYA SHANKAR, behavior scientist and podcast host of Apple's Best Show of the Year, A Slight Change of Plans

"I texted my ex 'hi' on Christmas and then I read this book. Required reading for anyone else embarrassing themselves on a daily basis." -CAZZIE DAVID, New York Times bestselling author of No One Asked For This

"Nick's book is the opposite of what you'd expect from an alum of The Bachelor. It's a self-help guide for his fans and followers. Nick's words are approachable and conversational, as if you're talking to a friend-well, one who doesn't sugarcoat the red flags. Plus, you'll get a few personal anecdotes from one of reality TV's most memorable stars." -ELIZABETH WAGMEISTER, chief correspondent at Variety

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With his trademark charm, relationship expertise, and exclusive sex and love Q&A series, Nick guides readers through topics of love, lust, dating, and heartbreak. Nothing is off-limits as he delves into situationships, how to identify a player, and defining healthy love vs. toxic love.

Trying to figure out if friends with benefits is worth it? Unsure if they're really into you? Is this guy a walking red flag? Can you come back from being cheated on? Viall is here with all the answers and more.

Filled with stories and one-liners you'll be texting your friends, Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday is an honest, entertaining, and heartfelt relationship handbook that actually answers the question, "What does it mean when they say . . . ?"

Book Hero Magic summarised reviews for this book. While it's new and still learning, it may not be perfect - your feedback is welcome! HOW HAS THIS BEEN REVIEWED?

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday by Nick Viall offers insights on navigating the complexities of modern relationships. Reviews highlight its approachable tone and straightforward advice, appealing to readers seeking guidance in dating and maintaining healthy connections. Readers appreciate Viall's personal anecdotes and relatable experiences, although some feel the advice might cater more to his podcast audience.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781419771668

Publisher: Abrams

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 09 November 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Abrams Image

Illustration: Two-color design

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 210.0mm

Height: 140.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 224

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About the Author

Nick Viall is a Los Angeles–based entertainment personality and entrepreneur who is best known as the host of the E! People’s Choice Award–nominated podcast The Viall Files. Previously, Nick starred in the 21st season of ABC’s The Bachelor after participating in three prior seasons of the franchise. Viall has built a name for himself as a contemporary and very opinionated dating-advice guru, in addition to working as a TV actor, with roles on shows such as Insecure, Teachers, Speechless, and Family Guy.

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